Thursday, December 13, 2007

Well, we're three weeks into the season....

...and we have yet to win a game.

The way this is going, we may go 0 for season, and that's not a good thing!

The bright side - we never quit hustling and our fundamentals ARE getting better, just not where they need to be for us to win just yet. We did a much better job last night of getting back on defense, but we were not consistent in the effort and gave up way too many points in transition. We did a better job on the offensive end, but we couldn't sink free throws when we got to the line (cost us BADLY in both games!). We rebounded better, but the other team STILL got way too many second and third chances at their basket and we were not boxing out like we've practiced and were therefore not creating any space under the basket. These were the reasons we lost again and they're the same reasons we've lost every game so far and will continue to lose until we fix them.

Otherwise, it was a great night!

Oh, and then there was "the call." My youngest daughter is upset with me because, several months back, her car broke down and she called me and asked if I could hook up my trailer and come pick her car up. I told her that I really couldn't; it was late already and we were about 40 minutes away from the house at the time. To hook up the trailer and take it all the way across Houston would have taken another hour and a half and then the trip back would've added probably another two hours, putting me in bed at about 2 in the morning. Unfortunately, I had to go to work the next day and I just can't function if I get into bed so late, so I recommended that she call a wrecker. Towing is covered under her insurance policy, so I didn't think it was an unreasonable request. Not only that, but, one of these days, "CallDaddyForBail-Out.com" is going to be out of business and she's got to learn how to deal with life's little problems using her own wherewithal and resources, so I genuinely believed it would be a good experience for her to solve her problem on her own. My mistake. Now, I'm Satan and my intestines are seriously disliked if not loathed. Part two - on the cell bill last month (I pay for her cell phone - a fact that she conveniently forgets as much as possible) she went over on her minutes MONUMENTALLY! What is usually a bill of around $100 per month shyrocketed to over twice that, so I broke her off a call and told her that I expected her to pay for her overage just as we agreed when we set this deal up. Well, my "excuse bag" is overflowing! Apparently, she got into her mother for a lot of cash and had to pay HER back first - this despite the fact that our agreement preceeded that with her mother by over a year! So, after some considerable consternation, I told her that I would forgive her debt as a birthday/Christmas present but, if it ever happened again, her phone would be turned off. Somebody help me with these horns, will ya? Oh, and this pointed tail and pitchfork is getting a little cumbersome as well!

I don't think I'm being unreasonable, but then, I'm dealing with a 21 year-old who hasn't grown up and expects everything to be simply handed to her all the time. Uh...... I don't think it's coming from this direction, thank you very much!

Stay tuned for future travail! It can't get much better than this! - Dan

1 comment:

Kimela said...

Oh my goodness, you are so evil! Paying for a cell phone for someone is totally mean!!

Only one word comes to mind...
Gratitude - appreciative of benefits received / expressing gratitude

We don’t see a lot of gratitude around us. In today’s world it’s take...take...take and take some more. And then get mad when more is not available. More...More...More, there I said it over and over just so you would get the point.

Life is not easy and everyone has to learn lessons. Sometimes they do not like the lessons they learn. Too bad for them, we had to learn our lessons and we are much better for it today.

Some people thrive on turmoil, hatefulness, chaos, negative behavior, hospitality and untruthfulness. So much so that they are constantly living lives that are full of these sad and pathetic traits. They must live the loneliest live imaginable. I am so glad my life is not like that.